burgie2- 06-27-2010
Hello everyone,
I'm new on this forum and I live in Belgium.
I have known a webcam girl since September and now I'm going to meet her in her city (Saint-Petersburg) in Russia.
The tickets and the hotel have already been booked.
Any comments?
I'm new on this forum and I live in Belgium.
I have known a webcam girl since September and now I'm going to meet her in her city (Saint-Petersburg) in Russia.
The tickets and the hotel have already been booked.
Any comments?
TRAINER- 06-27-2010
Good luck.
UncleLewis- 06-27-2010
Welcome Burgie2.. There are lots of posts here that bear on your
request for comments. You might look at the oldest -and most infamous -
thread of them all - "Friendship." and then move to the thread "Romance
with models does it ever happen?"And then I strongly recommend that you look at the thread "Internet Cam Girls" in "The Situation in Romania..." http://camgirlnotes.15.forumer.com/index.php?showtopic=1027
But be warned none of these cautionary tales will be terribly encouraging.
The most recent thread that bears on your question is this one.. Please take a look:
http://camgirlnotes.15.forumer.com/index.php?showtopic=1778
And as Trainer said: "Good Luck!"
I think that you're going to need it.
UL
camgirl- 06-27-2010
as far as I know, Saint-Petersburg is a dangerous city, but well.. it might go fine. Good luck and tell us how it was.
burgie2- 06-28-2010
why dangerous city? my girl will normally wait for me at the airport...
sure i will let know how it went...
sure i will let know how it went...
camgirl- 06-28-2010
This is what I was told by a Russian friend. It seems there are some
high crime areas that you should avoid. Every private car can be a taxi,
be sure you don't take one with people inside. You never know. Also,
the driver can drive longer before you reach the destinations to get
more money from you. If you use metro, be aware of PICK-POCKETS! It
happens very many times when the doors are opening and people push you
outside, to be robbed. Stay on the main sidewalks and not go into any
dark alleys or yards, there are gypsies with drugs and robbery histories
near almost all the important restaurants. Some gangs, such as
Neo-Nazis are out looking for trouble and committing crimes that affect
tourists, sometimes. They use guns and knives. Don't show that you have
money anywhere. Don't wear jewels or watch. Another problem is with
street children who make their living out of stealing. In clubs there
are fights every day and police don't show up if the fight is small,
unimportant or considered a waste of time to take measures. If the girl
invites you to a suburb, don't go.
In general, be careful. It happened before that a client to be invited and be told that the girl will wait him in the airport but instead of her, somebody else was waiting who took all his money and documents and could only return though embassy. Also in hotel, you can be a target because most probably you showed already to the girl that you have money, so you are not even in the situation of a "normal" tourist.
In general, be careful. It happened before that a client to be invited and be told that the girl will wait him in the airport but instead of her, somebody else was waiting who took all his money and documents and could only return though embassy. Also in hotel, you can be a target because most probably you showed already to the girl that you have money, so you are not even in the situation of a "normal" tourist.
CoolBreeze- 06-28-2010
You asked for any comments so...
Why are you going to meet this girl? What's your motivation?
Laying the dangers of putting your trust in someone who lies for a living aside, I'll just say that in rare occasions, sometimes it works out. ^^ Hopefully this will be the case for you as well.
Breeze
Why are you going to meet this girl? What's your motivation?
Laying the dangers of putting your trust in someone who lies for a living aside, I'll just say that in rare occasions, sometimes it works out. ^^ Hopefully this will be the case for you as well.
Breeze
UncleLewis- 06-28-2010
camgirl's description of St. Petersburg sounds very much like the
description of Rio De Janeiro one see's on the t-shirts they sell to the
tourists there. They read in English:"I Left My Heart in Rio...
and my wallet
and my watch
and my shirt
and my shoes
etc, etc...
Play safe and "trust but verify..."
UL
burgie2- 07-01-2010
Why do I want to meet her?
because maybe i will marry her
yes, there is an aspect of trust.... but sometimes you have to take a risk...
if i would have found her on a regular dating site, it could go wrong too...
in any case i will let you know how it was
because maybe i will marry her
yes, there is an aspect of trust.... but sometimes you have to take a risk...
if i would have found her on a regular dating site, it could go wrong too...
in any case i will let you know how it was
grthngs- 07-02-2010
This is a hard place to ask for those comments. I believe you will find what you find odds are they willbe good.
You have to remember many people here either have been burned by models or are increasing their methods of trying to quell chat. Thee are those who want to help models.
I am one who looks at both sides.
Good luck sounds cynical but I highly suggest you look at the following.
1. Does she think she can have a real relationship?
2. Is anyone sick in her family?
3. Would she be willing to sign a prenuptial agreement?
4. Are you expected to bring her family?
If you can live with the answers go for it. There are many great relationships out there that started this way.
You have to remember many people here either have been burned by models or are increasing their methods of trying to quell chat. Thee are those who want to help models.
I am one who looks at both sides.
Good luck sounds cynical but I highly suggest you look at the following.
1. Does she think she can have a real relationship?
2. Is anyone sick in her family?
3. Would she be willing to sign a prenuptial agreement?
4. Are you expected to bring her family?
If you can live with the answers go for it. There are many great relationships out there that started this way.
camgirl- 07-03-2010
Besides all the questions and doubts, going to meet somebody with the
presumption that you will get married sounds like something outside of
this century for me, at least, or a desperate move. The important
question is: are you truly in love, already, after knowing her online
only? If yes, the next step is to see if is mutual, then living together
a while before marriage. Then the big question: does she want to get
marry with you?
Because even considering that she wants a serious relationship too, also there are many aspects that can be compatible - or not - even between 2 persons who love each other: different backgrounds ..etc..
But if you want to get married just to have a wife and kids, yes, Russian women are beautiful so guess it doesn't matter anyway the compatibility. But they are also independent. It's not like when you go in Thailand and buy a wife who was educated to be devoted don't matter what. That's why it's also about what she wants.
I don't know u, so it's nothing personal, but as cam model I can tell you I'm proposed marriage by over 20 guys/day (and I don't stay online much in this period), and over 60 date proposals. So yes, can be tricky when a model invites you, or a matter of luck.
So for now there is a risk and many "???". I with u the best and hope you will find what you want
Because even considering that she wants a serious relationship too, also there are many aspects that can be compatible - or not - even between 2 persons who love each other: different backgrounds ..etc..
But if you want to get married just to have a wife and kids, yes, Russian women are beautiful so guess it doesn't matter anyway the compatibility. But they are also independent. It's not like when you go in Thailand and buy a wife who was educated to be devoted don't matter what. That's why it's also about what she wants.
I don't know u, so it's nothing personal, but as cam model I can tell you I'm proposed marriage by over 20 guys/day (and I don't stay online much in this period), and over 60 date proposals. So yes, can be tricky when a model invites you, or a matter of luck.
So for now there is a risk and many "???". I with u the best and hope you will find what you want
burgie2- 07-03-2010
Hello
Thank you for your replies ))
of course it is easy to say "i want to marry you" during a webcam chat but we already have a kind of "online relationship"
I have talked to this girl three times per week since september and we are writing emails every day... She does say she want to marry with me also...
but I agree there are many questions still....
It's not because you like someone on the webcam that you like someone in the real life.... so I have to go there to find this out....
I talked to another russian webcam girl about this and this webcam girl even live in Spain during three months.... so it is possible that customers can meet a webcam girl
I will leave on July 22 th and I will return on July 27 th
Thank you for your replies ))
of course it is easy to say "i want to marry you" during a webcam chat but we already have a kind of "online relationship"
I have talked to this girl three times per week since september and we are writing emails every day... She does say she want to marry with me also...
but I agree there are many questions still....
It's not because you like someone on the webcam that you like someone in the real life.... so I have to go there to find this out....
I talked to another russian webcam girl about this and this webcam girl even live in Spain during three months.... so it is possible that customers can meet a webcam girl
I will leave on July 22 th and I will return on July 27 th
camgirl- 07-03-2010
If she said she wants to marry you before even meeting you, that's really weird.
5 days is not enough to know if u want to spend the rest of your life with somebody. There are couples who live together years before thinking about that decision. Oh well.. different minds, different thoughts
So you want to meet a second Russian girl during this trip and she said she lives in Spain?
5 days is not enough to know if u want to spend the rest of your life with somebody. There are couples who live together years before thinking about that decision. Oh well.. different minds, different thoughts
So you want to meet a second Russian girl during this trip and she said she lives in Spain?
TRAINER- 07-03-2010
Alright, Burgie.
So you wish to meet to learn more about each other. To have an intimate meeting for whatever purpose or reasons. You simply want to get to know each other personally and see if you both are compatible.
Even if you do fall in love and get married, I will say that people have done that and then used it to gain financial status. As grthngs mentioned if you do tie the knot, I suggest a prenuptial agreement.
I ask you this, and these are important questions.
Would you be okay with her continuing working as a cam model if she so chooses?
Will she gladly leave her country and home and leave behind whatever family she has there?
Will you gladly change your life and live in her country if agreed upon?
All I can say to you, is tread carefully, think logically and think beyond your heart and sexual organs.
I also might suggest that why is it that you had to find a woman on an adult cam site to find love and marriage? Are there no good prospects where you live?
As camgirl suggests, she gets marriage proposals from many lustful members and dating requests. It is a topic I and others have mentioned ad discussed quite a few times on this forum.
After a while the fantasy overcomes the reality of it all. Fun and games. I wish you good luck in your quest for companionship. Don't look for things in the wrong places.
So you wish to meet to learn more about each other. To have an intimate meeting for whatever purpose or reasons. You simply want to get to know each other personally and see if you both are compatible.
Even if you do fall in love and get married, I will say that people have done that and then used it to gain financial status. As grthngs mentioned if you do tie the knot, I suggest a prenuptial agreement.
I ask you this, and these are important questions.
Would you be okay with her continuing working as a cam model if she so chooses?
Will she gladly leave her country and home and leave behind whatever family she has there?
Will you gladly change your life and live in her country if agreed upon?
All I can say to you, is tread carefully, think logically and think beyond your heart and sexual organs.
I also might suggest that why is it that you had to find a woman on an adult cam site to find love and marriage? Are there no good prospects where you live?
As camgirl suggests, she gets marriage proposals from many lustful members and dating requests. It is a topic I and others have mentioned ad discussed quite a few times on this forum.
After a while the fantasy overcomes the reality of it all. Fun and games. I wish you good luck in your quest for companionship. Don't look for things in the wrong places.
grthngs- 07-03-2010
Both
of the previous post are excellent The thing you want to make sure of
is you are marrying the girl and not the family. I don't know the
situation well enough but some things do seem strange. Best wishes.
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